Is it Love or Lust

Now this is the million dollar question and we all want to know the answer to this one. How do we know if were lusting for a man or really in love with him?

Love is a deep tender feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. (Online dictionary)

"Love is a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance."

"Love is sexual passion and sexual intercourse."

Did the definitions of love answer your questions? Are you wondering if the mate youre with is in love with you or is he lusting after that size five body of yours? Are you in love with him, or do you want his body?

Lust is intense or unrestrained sexual craving; to have an intense or sexual desire; intense eagerness or enthusiasm.

Now how about the definition for lust; are you lusting for your mate? Do you have this deep desire for him and you want to ravage his body from the moment you set eyes on him? Does he want to ravish your body from the moment he sets eyes on you? If so, maybe you two are animals, lusting after the heat. The only thing you both will have in common is sex and nothing more or less.

I was in a book club once and we had finished reading a romance novel by one of the BET authors. After everyone had a week to read the book we met up on Friday to discuss it. I was amazed at the different opinions that were thrown out there:

o How could you fall madly in love with someone you just meet?

o Its nothing but a mechanism of lust pure and simple.

o Theres no such thing as love at first sight.

o Its lust at first sight.

The two main characters saw each other at a party, and they couldnt take their eyes off of each other. The hero wanted to take the heroine to bed at first glance. If this was the case, then hes hot for her, but its of a lustful nature, of course. He wants to take her to bed right now, so what kind of person is this? Im not into you as a committed relationship. Im so burning for you; I want your body and nothing more or nothing less. Do you get the picture?

When I see someone across the room I dont want to tear off his shirt, and then unzip his pants, and make passionate love to him on the floor. I want to get to know that person, and the sex will be something if our relationship develops more.

Maybe this is the reason why marriages and relationship doesnt work. Were not really in love, but we lust for each other. Was Brad and Jennifer really in love with each other, or did they lust for each other? Lust wears off, and love will last a lifetime. I think they got caught up in the fairy tale, and Brad wanted something new of a different model. He got tired of the same old thing.

My man told me that he loved me often, but his actions proved that his words were useless to me. If you tell me that you love me, then Im going to make you prove your love for me. I have lusted after men, but the only thing I wanted to do with them was jump their bones, and then get on with the rest of my life. I didnt see spending the rest of my life with this man.

I think I know the difference between lust and love. A love is an emotion that you cant turn on and off like a car engine. You think about that person all day and night, and you want to make sure that you can be with this person. If you spend time with him/her just watching a movie, or eating together, you know that you really have deep rooted feelings for this person.

If you go to a party and your eyes see someone, and your first thought is how he looks naked, then hes not your love mate, but hes your lust mate. You just want to get him into bed, and have your way with him. You probably wont even recognize his name in the morning.

When it comes between love and lust, Id take the love over lust any time of the day, week, month or year. Im searching for a lasting relationship and not a one night stand with a man who wants to get his groove on with me for an hour of passionate stimulation of the love kind.

Women do you want a lasting relationship with a man who loves you more than his own life, or do you want someone who has this desire to have you morning, noon and night?

Men do you want a woman because her body turns you on, and you are hard as rock because of it? Or do you want someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with, and youd die for?
If you really answered this question truthfully then your answer is very simple. I want lust or I want love. I think I want love because love conquers all and it makes the world go around.

As for lust, I wouldnt want a man thinking of me in those terms. Im going to sleep with her; bang her, and then Im going home to my loving wife because shes not that kinky in bed.

Married men are lusting for women every day of the week. When the summer time hits Chicago with a bang, the men are so hard; they cant walk for the emotions harboring their brain. You see a woman with half of her body out, you want her. I think this is lust.

If you saw a woman with a turtle neck sweater on, and she had on a winter coat, and you wanted to talk to her, then you might eventually fall in love with her because love has won hands down.
I want love and lust in my relationship. Can we have them both? I think so depending on the parties involved. I want a man that loves me to death and lusts after me in a very pleasurable way so he can have my body rocking to the ends of the earth and then some. Why cant we have them both?

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STOP MISSING THEM !

 

IF YOU WANT THEM BACK STOP MISSING THEM !!

I Hear form scores of people , Who are trying to pursue the love of their lives using the law of Attraction. Here is one thing that all of them do wrong. 

They Miss them. 

You have to understand that , missing them constantly , repeatedly paying attention to their absence , is something that keeps them away. because all the universe hears from you is "Absence ! Absence ! Absence ! " So it does what it does best , and gives you more of this ABSENCE . The result , is that your manifestation doesnt happen. 

Yes you have been visualizing , giving gratitude , doing your magic practices , but if after putting all this effort in the right direction , you spend the rest of your day feeling nostalgic , and feeling lonely and bad and sad because you MISS them . It defeats the whole purpose of the Law of attraction. What you are doing is giving mixed vibrations. and so you feel stuck and frustrated. 

 Here is where the concept of Allowing Or Letting Go Comes to play . Yes its true that the more emotion you give while focusing your thoughts on your desire the faster its gonna come to you , but its also true that you cant just go from feeling numb to Feeling unconditional love in a day or even in a week , the feelings will come naturally and gradually , and get stronger and clearer as each day passes. 

What people usually do is that, they will visualize throughout the day, even when they dont feel like it , they will force themselves, because the concept of Work=Rewards is going on in their heads. 

Thats not true when dealing with the universe, you can visualize 5 minutes a day, and still manifest your desires, because its not the amount of time put in or hardships endured that counts , its the quality of your emotion that counts. 

Enough Rants , Lets just keep to the mechanics of how the universe can help you with your ex problem. 

You see , in case of an ex, there are a lot of built up feelings, caused by a bad breakup, and all this time spent away from each other. So first off all you have to understand that all of these feelings are just negative momentum, its like you think about missing them , which leads to thoughts of unworthiness , which leads to thoughts of insecurity , which leads to hopelessness and helplessness , further comes frustration , Anger , jealousy and before you know it you are breathing in a paper bag , because of the full blown panic attack you just had. And so you see how the train of   negative momentum goes , This train is the reason why , whenever you start to think about your ex you feel bad , coz that feeling bad place is where you are with regards to your ex. The negative momentum will give you access to only negative thoughts. So what do you do.. ??

You meditate , clear your head , focus on not thinking or doing the things that cause you pain,that includes not thinking about your ex, letting the thought go  as you do these things you slowly come to a place of numbness , and then if you dont panic with the whole numbness thing , you move on to a place of general happiness , coz the human mind is wired to be Happy by default, its because we hold on to a lot of negative thoughts by thinking about them over and over, the mind travels to the dark side . But as soon as you let go, you go to a place where the mind is unburdened and happy. 

 
Some of you may find this "letting Go" thing a little difficult , as you may relate it to letting go of your ex , coz it may be your belief , that if you stop thinking about your ex , the universe would stop trying . But, Just relax, the first time you expressed your desire for that particular person , the universe said OK and found a way to get you your desire , but it cant yet provide you your desire , coz you are not allowing it , in other simpler words, You are so stuck in your negative momentum,  in a place of telling the universe with your thoughts , "I dont have this !" that , it is all the universe can give you. "Not having it , and thoughts of not having it." 

So in very simple words the step by step program would be:

1. Clear your head (let go of negative, Find a hobby, find happiness in what you have.) 

2. Focus on the feeling of being with them 2 times in a day, once in the morning , and then before going to bed at night. ( before bed is important, visualize , write about it )

3. Clear your Blocks. ( As you move towards your desire , the universe will make you feel bad through a thought on occasion to try and tell you that this thought is the reason i cant give you your desire , you need to think around it , or get rid of it ) (take help of a coach , or a level headed person , or rationalize it yourself) 

4. Allowing . ( Apart from the morning and night focus , throughout the day , distract yourself , dont think about your desire , coz no thought is better than a negative thought. ) 

Lastly , know that you are not rekindling an old relationship , you are in process of creating a new one.. doesnt matter , if its with the same person . its a new relationship that you are creating. 

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Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Back

When break ups occur, it can shake a person’s confidence. No confidence in themselves; confidence in making others happy. Your feelings are extremely hurt but what if you had a chance to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back. How would you handle it all? Would you have the relationship start fresh or pick it back up from where you left off? Has the thought of getting back together with your ex even crossed your mind? Sure it has!

Did y?u kn?w th?t mo?t relationship problems can be fixed. You may not realize ?t but mo?t of the bigger problems com? fr?m you ?n th? inside. You m?y als? not realize ?t but the problems ?ou hav? fr?m previous relationships c?n affect your present one.

So wh?t c?n ?ou d? to get y?ur ?x boyfriend or ?x girlfriend back?

First off, leave your ?x alon? in th? v?ry beginning. If ?ou start pursuing them r?ght aft?r th? break up, ?t m?y lead them t? put ? restraining order aga?n?t ?ou ?r th?m nev?r talking to you again. It helps to give your ?x ?ome time ?nd space to think ?bout what has happened. Both ?f y?u ne?d time to th?nk ab?ut what went wrong ?nd each of ?ou c?n figure wh?ch problem or problems y?u w?re responsible that led to th? relationship’s demise.



Remember as mu?h ?s y?u would lik? to y?u cannot fix what wa? wrong w?th y?ur ?x boyfriend ?r girlfriend. It i? not possible. They hav? t? fix th?ir own problems. Just lik? onl? y?u c?n fix ?nd face y?ur inner demons. If y?u w?nt t? g?t your ex boyfriend ?r ?x girlfriend back, the? h?ve t? fix the?r own- y?u cant d? it for them.

When ?ou are dating someone, y?u begin t? make compromises f?r th? ones ?ou love. Your relationship i? ? matter of give ?nd take ?nd y?u should remember th?t to find an equality f?r the b?th of you. Both ?f you w?nt t? make th? oth?r person happy. So wh?tever ?ou s?y and do, you will be held accountable for all.

When y?u d? get y?ur ex boyfriend or ?x girlfriend back, b? sur? t? tak? the relationship slowly. Picking u? wher? y?u left ?ff ?an be damaging f?r the relationship. Also, do n?t call, email, text message ?r anyth?ng els? ?n a daily basis wh?n y?u ar? working to get back togeth?r w?th y?ur ex. Eventually, ?ou get to spend mor? time togeth?r and th? memories y?u shared befor? ?an b? rekindled.

When y?u w?nt to get ?our ?x boyfriend or ex girlfriend back, you hav? to make ?ome compromises ?nd ?hange? on s?me issues. Otherwise, what wa? the point of g?tting back together? If you want ? s?rious shot, just remember thes? simple littl? issues. Also, ?f your ?x turns out n?t to b? your life long partner, th? change c?n hel? ?ou out ?n future relationships.

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DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE !!!

The Impossible tasks ! 

What is Impossible? , You can tell me that the meaning lies in the word itself, some of the more positive people tell me that it is just a way to say, I AM POSSIBLE. I don’t really understand what that means…I mean yes I exist, ergo I am not just a possibility, but I am a truth, which you and everyone else on this planet will have to live with hopefully for the next 40 more years.

But then what is Impossible, and by extension, what is an impossible task? A impossible situation. I ll go ahead and explore what it means for an average person. It’s a place of No hope, or to put it in a more “non-depressing” way, it’s a task you have no idea how to accomplish, and even if you have an idea on how to do it, you are right now not in a state to implement that idea. To put it more simply, you don’t know how to get ‘there’ from ‘here’. You don’t know the path, or the path you know, you are in no position to walk on right now.


I ll take 2 examples, of impossible tasks, see if any one of it is applicable to you. 

1. Buying a House.

2. Getting back an Ex/Making a crush fall for you/ changing someone’s attitude. 


So you want to buy a house. So your mind says, its fairly simply, Make the money and then 
buy the house. Then you ask your mind, how do I make so much money. And the answer is usually, ‘Someday’. Till then I think you should rent. 

When it comes to changing someone’s mind about you, your mind is like, ‘lets keep trying’ , maybe we can wear them down by our nagging or persistence. And when the other person goes and blocks your number and phone, your mind is like “we tried our best, maybe it was not worth it, just sit and mope, complain occasionally, ‘Someday’ it will all change, wait till then, at least they will call you brave to put up with all this.”

So what happened in both the cases? In both cases your mind didn’t know how to get ‘there’, it tried all that it could, and when it didn’t work, your mind declared that there is no other way, and to conserve energy it made this problem a problem for your ‘future self’.

So then are we doomed to not buy that house, when we need it, or not be in a relationship of our choice. Not have the love and appreciation that we deserve?
No, we are forgetting something very important. Focus, and Desire. We usually don’t pay attention to the ‘thinking’ part, when all our problems lie in this physical world.

What if I tell you today, that the world doesn’t work the way you come to believe. We live in a world where we expect results to every action. And so happiness and relief is a ‘result’ for us, Result of an action that you take in the physical reality. How many times you would have caught yourself saying. 

“if only I could have that one thing, I would be that happiest person on the planet.”
This approach, this perspective about life leads us to the whole concept of Impossible.
Happiness and Bliss and relief are not ‘Results’, these are ‘Actions’ and such strong actions that they can actually open up, and show you a way towards an impossible situation.

The human brain is a stupid thing, it always assumes that it knows all there is to know about a situation, and so when find yourself in a place where you have to make a decision, your brain just assumes that it knows all possible ways, and that there is no other
way. But you and i both know from experience that, if we cant see a way, that doesnt mean that it doesnt exists.

So even if you don’t know the how of having that new house right now, don’t worry, don’t even put off your dream, because the ‘way’ in which you can have that house, that relationship, that dream come true, Right now,Exists ! You just don’t see it yet, and to see it, to see this path, this new way, light up in front of you, you have to just move a little towards your impossible goal, and how do you do that? You focus on having it right now, and you feel how it would feel to be in that perfect world where you have what you want. You discuss why you want it? How is it going to make you feel, you get excited about it. That is how you move towards it. And the best part, you don’t even have to do it all day. Writing or visualizing about your perfect resolution, 5 minutes every day before bed, and then not worrying about it all day is all it takes for you to see the new path light in front of you.


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My Sheep Hear My Voice!

Now that we the American citizens have made it through another year of fighting for our Constitutional Rights and to be protected by our Bill of Rights; I just want to say thank you Lord Jesus Christ for sitting on the Right had of God our Heavenly Father interceding for us all! (Luke 22 verse 69) I say this prayer for all of the citizens of America.

Since the last Presidential election American citizens have been ruled with an iron fist like the communist nations. Since 9/11, the American citizens are treated like terrorist by our elected public servants. Our elected public servants claimed they had to pass the Patriot Act in order to protect our American way of life. Well freedom is our way of life and this Act takes away our freedoms and makes our public servants dictators over, the American citizens. You may say ask is this possible? Well let me begin with a several quotes citizens believe regarding the United States of America: "We are a Christian nation." "America is a civilized nation." "America is a powerful nation." "American citizens live in a free nation." "American media is free." "American citizens live under a system of democracy." "Our elected public servants honor their oath of affirmation to preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States of America from foreign and domestic enemies." (Article 2,Sec.1, Clause 8) "Our military are fighting all over the world to keep American citizens free." There are other quotes that I know you, the reader can think of too, but I will stop with these.

Out of all the previous quotes which one do you recognize as the voice of our Lord Jesus Christ? Remember, His sheep hear only His voice and follow it. (Mark 13 verse 31 and John 10 verses 27, 28). So let me tell you what our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ have to say about all of these quotes. "Heaven and Earth will pass away but my Word will last forever."(Matt 24 verse 35 and Matt 5 verse 18) Apparently all of the previous quotes ended in 2001. If you do not believe it then just fill out an application for anything in America and see what personal and private questions our public servants want from us, the free American Citizens. Then check all the latest legislation by your elected public servant you will find that all our phone calls and emails are being read by the Federal Bureau of Investigation (F.B.I) and the Central Intelligent Agency (C.I.A.) thanks to the Patriot Act. I was also informed in December, 2006 that if you apply for a job your employer can access your police records. Now imagine your employer, a person who may be a criminal too, accessing your police records from juvenile to adult. Now remember we are free! You might say if one does not have a traffic ticket, a DUI, credit problems, domestic problems, money problems, prescription drug or street drug problems, or child support problems, then you do not have to worry about what your employer finds in your police records. Honestly, even the elected public servants have some of the previous problems that I have listed above. However, at the time congress passed the Patriot Act they were scared of every American citizen who lived in America not just the people who commit the terrorist acts.

The Words of our Lord Jesus Christ concerning America is as follows: "You will know His disciples by their fruits." (Matt 7 verse 20 and Luke 6 verse 44) If we are listening to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ voice then we will be about our Heavenly Father business, meaning having a clear consciousness of our identity and mission in Christ. (Luke 2 verse 49) We should be letting the love of God flow though us; so that we can reach a dying world who knows not of God or his Son. (Col 3 verse 16) American democracy is fear mongering, "God did not give us the spirit of fear but of love and a sound mind." (2nd Tim 1 verse 17) It is written, fear not man who can only destroy the body but fear God who can destroy both body and spirit." (Matt 10 verse 28 and Luke 12 verse 4, 5) It is also written if you love me you will keep my commandments. In the New Testament, the first commandment is to love the Lord thy God with all your heart, soul, mind, body, and strength, and the second is to love thy neighbor as thy self." (Matt 22 verse 37 and Mark 12 verses 29, 31) America we are not listening to the voice of our Lord Jesus Christ. We are listening to the voices of our fellow man; and we are too busy trying to make personal gods out of our public servants and God is not pleased with that.

American Citizens, I suggest that you read the Bible for yourselves, for if you dont you wont know what the voice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ sounds like. In addition, I suggest you read the four gospels four times each and just read the red print first; then go back and read the four gospels again, but the second time you read the gospel read the black print only. Then go back and read the black and read print together twice. You see the best way to know what the voice of our Lord Jesus Christ sound like; is by reading His Words. He said He and his Words are one and His Words are Spirit." (John 6 verse 63 and John 14 verse 23). So American citizens and elected public servants if you believe the United States of America is a Christian Nation then you are not listening to the voice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ concerning mankind.

According to Apostle Paul, we are the children of God as we live on earth and our citizenship is in heaven. (Roman 8 verses 6 and 7). Remember also it is written "Without Him we can do nothing." (Ephesians 4) "Not by power not by might, but by my Spirit says the Lord of hosts" (Zachariah 4 verse 6). American citizens if we are going to listen to any voice then it might as well be the voice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Whose voice are you listening to?

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Guilt Or Love

Have you ever heard the expression if you loved me you would do "blank". Whats that all about anyway, if only you loved me you would buy me the Empire State building, work harder so I can be happier, learn to be a better father and husband, take care of your children so I can have a much needed day off. Okay I might be getting a little carried away here with some of the stuff my ex wife used to tell me.

Why do these people need to guilt someone into doing something. Instead of, if you love me lets go to the opposite direction and used the phrase, "You Dont Love Me Otherwise You Would Do Blank." Lets get to the bottom of this and find out who taught us to feel guilty, our parents, friends, religions and of course our greatest teachers of all, the masters at guilt are schoolteachers. My teachers were masters at making undisciplined children feel completely useless while the gifted students most of the time enjoyed a guiltless relationship with the teacher.

As long as you were doing what you were told at home your mother would have no need to lay the guilt trip on you. If you dont do what you are told you are going to be in trouble, dont even think about doing that or youre going to get a spanking when your father gets home. The classic abdication of responsibility. What about this classic from your parents, if you do something correctly I will gladly reward you with some cash.

Now how can this be guilt if someone is going to reward me with some cash. Guilt is basically the fear of being punished and the minute someone offers to reward you for something pleasant you have done or are about to do or something they dont want you to do, this is fear based guilt in its purest essence. If you do something in order to expect a reward and you do not accomplish the task, you feel guilty. You feel like you let someone down and theres a very good chance the people that were going to reward you are going to let you know that you failed and you will not be rewarded.

What a wonderful explanation for loving someone with guilt. We only use guilt because we have no other skills for communicating or getting our point across. As long as the people we seem to care about most remain guilt ridden we can manipulate them. Ive known people that are simply masters at using their guilt skills. These people subconsciously submit subliminal messages into the minds of their loved ones about guilt. They dont even realize the damage they are doing because this is the only way they know how to show their love and to be loved.

These people need to feel love from other people and guilt of course provides the fear necessary for the dependent person to show their love to the guilt master. This article was written to inform those people that use guilt unknowingly or deliberately, to stop damaging the people they care about and think about the possibility of going to pick up a book on developing your communication skills.

I was actually thinking about making the readers of this article feel guilty in order to read it. What would the title have been, If You Dont Read This You Are a Loser, Reading Creates Winners, Find out What Everyone Is Talking About, Is Your Wife the Problem with Your Relationship, You Should Have Listened to Your Mom, okay thats enough of these crappy titles. I wasnt going to use any guilt but if you need someone to throw a little guilt into your life go pick up the the best selling book in history, The Holy Bible. There should be enough guilt in there to keep you reading for a long time.

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Relationships Break Up To Make Up

This is your guide: Relationships – Break Up to Make Up. The break up may be just the first stage in getting back together with an ex.

If you had been dating for any length of time, you and your ex had a lot invested in the relationship. You obviously loved and cared for each other. But something went wrong and one of you decided to call it quits. How you handle the relationship break up may have a lot to do with whether you can ever make up.

If you are the one initiating the break up, try to do it with love and compassion. Whether you are truly calling it quits or just wanting a time out, remember that this is a person who has been important to you and you have a responsibility to take his or her feelings into account.

It’s generally best to tell the person that you want to break up in a public place. That’s because people are less likely to embarrass themselves if others are around. Also, don’t draw the break up out. Just say your piece and leave.

Once you have broken up, leave the channels of communication open. Be there for your ex when he or she needs you.

Don’t play games with your ex. Some people suggest dating their best friend or flaunting a new date on your ex, but consider that if you ever make up, these things are going to haunt your new relationship.

If you have found that you want to get back together with your ex, consider the following:

· Tell them that you are interested

· Be interesting yourself – take up new activities and make new friends

· Try a new look – whether it is a new hair style or simply updating your grooming, your ex will notice.

Suggest that you meet your ex for lunch or some other non-romantic activity. During this time, you can bring up the positive memories you shared. You can also emphasize any changes you have made in your life.

If your ex gives you any indication that he or she is willing to give it a second try, don’t assume that you can start right back where you left off. Woo your boyfriend or girlfriend. Go out on romantic dates. Start by holding hands, not jumping into the sack.

Also, give your relationship time to heal from the break up. Don’t assume that your ex’s feelings weren’t hurt by the cooling off period.

Continue improving yourself. Don’t fall into bad habits just because you’ve got your ex back. Constantly strive to be the best boyfriend or girlfriend you can be.

That’s your guide to Relationships – Break up to Make up.

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Your Marriage or Relationship Saviour

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Is it possible to save a marriage alone and stop a divorce? As unbelievable as it sounds. Yes it is.

For centuries it was and is a common thing to go to a marriage counselor to try to save a marriage. For this both partners have to work together and follow the advice of the counselor. According to the newest studies less then 50% of those conventional couple therapies are successful, which is a sad fact.
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Why is this so? Going to a marriage counselor is like going to a psychiatrist, in most cases every little negative thing will be chewed on and chewed on. There is nothing exciting about saving a marriage this way. On the other hand, when only one of the partners starts to save a marriage, without the other even knowing about it, there are some really good strategies to save the marriage alone.

The spouse that wants to save the marriage alone begins to change his/her mindset and applies the strategies. The other half of the equation will notice the change in the mindset and will start to change as well. This is how the whole universe works, if you expect scarcity you will get scarcity. If you expect a successful marriage and work on it the chances are high that you will just get that.

Did you know that the success rate of these methods is more than 80%? That means it is more successful then the established partner therapy method.

Isn’t that exciting? You just discovered that you can save your marriage if you want to. That you can change your spouse if you change yourself and your attitude towards your relationship.
So what is the best way to start saving your marriage alone? How do you change your mindset, where do you get the guidance to stop your divorce? Even though you now know the rough outlines on what you have to do, you still are not an expert and you will most likely fail if you do it on your own.

You need the an expert marriage guide, a professional that teaches exactly what you need to know. Don’t wait for your marriage to get divorced. Don’t wait for your dreams and hopes that you both had for this relationship to die if you want to save your marriage and stop the divorce.

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Be a lamp or a lifeboat or a ladder

This line isnt just a lesson in moral science; it has endless wisdom wrapped in it. 

Law of attraction teaches us to be selfish, which is a very good thing. We start to think about ourselves. We start to pay attention to what we really want. We start making list after list of things that we would like to have in our reality. And all seems to be working out just fine. But then, one day we realize that although on technical level, Universe is working just fine, but still there are those top three desires on most people’s lists which don’t seem to be coming to pass.

And no matter how hard they try, visualization and everything, matters only seem to be getting worse. They know that they have to ‘let go’. But most do not know how. 

To those stuck at this level, I would suggest to listen to the wisdom of Rumi. When nothing seem to be working to distract you from your current predicament, try giving. Nothing works better than the joy of giving someone else the happiness that they had been looking for. Remembering, that we are all connected and that we are all one, also helps. Anything that we do for others is bound to come back to us, and that include all the good things. What we receive in our reality is always a reflection of what we give. 

So, go ahead and try this, help someone, do something to make someone feel good. Not only will it help to distract you from your current situation and thus help you to ‘let go’, but it will also bring more good things to you.

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Get Your Ex Back – 2 Mistakes to Avoid

Whenever it comes to the matters of the heart, it can be complicated when trying to get the heart of your ex back. You should always remember that normalcy is not always a reality when it comes to the affairs of the heart. The approach that you think is correct may be absolutely wrong, in fact.

Remember that wh?t you say ?nd wh?t ??u do c?n e?ther h?l? ?r hinder ??u in your quest t? get th? heart of y?ur ?x back. Many people, wh?n tr?ing t? f?r th?? task, d? the wrong things. These 2 commonly d?n? mistakes are: acting desperate and b?ing t?? aggressive.

Mistake (1) – Acting Desperate

If ?ou ?r? a strong, level headed person, tr? to remain so. Do n?t put ??urself in a hole th?t ??u ju?t ?annot get ?ut of. Don’t bec?me a weak minded fool that acts like th?y ?an’t do anyth?ng for themselves. Stand on ??ur own two feet ?nd show ?our ex th?t ?ou can go on in life without him ?r her. If y?u act needy, chances ?re ??ur ?x will run and you wont g?t the end result you ?ctu?lly want.

Mistake (2) – Being Too Aggressive

When ?ou ?re hurt, d? ??u g?t defensive ?nd feel th? n?ed to attack ?nyon? ?nd everyone? When ??u feel rejected, its normal t? s?y th? nastiest things that ?ome to your mind. You may al?o want t? d? things ju?t to retaliate aga?nst them. This is, no doubt, th? mo?t common wa? t? kill ?n? relationship ?nd ?ny chance to g?t back t?g?ther with an ex.

Time and patience ?? ? virtue when you want to get y?ur ex back. Remember that ?t isn’t impossible t? get th? heart of y?ur ex back, its ?ust go?ng to t?ke time. Find a plan th?t’s b??n tried ?ut before y?u go it alone. What y?u s?y and what ??u d? ?? ?ll human nature, y?u ju?t ne?d guidance ?n th?s matter.

Teecee Go writes articles focusing ?n helping people save the?r marriage ?nd anyone treasure relationship dearer. You ??n find helpful information ?n How t? Get Your Ex Back at BreakupCures.com Are ??u ?er??u? ?bout g?tting your ?x back? The fact ?s thousands have benefited by visiting TheMagicOfMakingUp.com



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