What Unconditional Love Really Means

While talking about unconditional love, one might think of a relationship between a mother and her child. That is a love without contingencies. In fact, by its very nature true love is unconditional. Love is patient and kind. It doesnt anger easily and keeps no record of wrongs. A mothers love always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres. It is not selfish or jealous. Unfortunately many people believe that a mothers love is the only unconditional love we can find on this planet. But let me tell you that I have experienced it with people other than my mother and once you have youll never settle for anything less.

Too many people confuse love with duty and have difficulties differentiating between them. They base their love for another person on how that person makes them feel. If the person stops making them feel good, or stops doing the things that make them feel good they stop loving the person and may even begin to recent or hate that person. Imagine a mother who stops loving her child because the child wont do chores. That would be a conditional love. She would be saying I love you as long as you keep your room clean, if you dont Ill stop loving you and maybe even hate you. This may sound silly but what chores or expectations do we place on our spouses or do they place on us? If not completed faithfully, is the love in the relationship questioned? What about the example of "Ill only love you as long as you love me back". Why would I stop loving you just because you dont love me? Isnt that selfish? To be clear, unconditional love is not comprised of any duties or contingent on what one person does for another.

Love is universal. It is not bounded to culture or region; it has a culture in itself. Loving someone is a gamble, people change in what seems like the blink of an eye. But real love is reflected from your steadfastness is the changing times. This is what makes love unconditional. In love you do not have to demand anything from your partner. Devotion is the only meaning of unconditional love.

Sometimes you may feel your partner is ignoring you for no reason, it really hurts but you have to bear it wholeheartedly. Maybe your lover is having some problems they dont want to share out of fear that you might get upset by hearing about them. This usually creates misunderstanding which can ruin the relationship from the roots. In such circumstances, the intensity of pure and unconditional love is tested. If you truly love your partner unconditionally it will be easier to stay firm. Youll be willing to take the time to seek out relationship advice from friends and websites like RelationshipAdvice911.com which let you ask questions and get other peoples opinions privately.

Some people get upset and lose hope on issues like love, relationships, dating and romance. They think they are simply unlucky in love if their love life is not going the way they want. What I feel about this is that ultimately finding unconditional love depends on how much you give. An unconditional love does not need to find its true lover rather, pure love makes its way on its own and unless you are paying attention you may not even recognize it when it comes your way.

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YOU HAVE THE POWER !!!

YOU HAVE THE POWER ! 

This is the first time in the history of Man kind that we are openly talking about the Power of the Universe , rather than fearing it or worshiping it , we are actively developing our skills to efficiently communicate with it .

Through our imagination , thoughts , emotions and by the power of our Will we are now able to shape and reshape and eventually perfect our own experience in this life. 

Nothing is impossible and Nothing is out of reach No matter who you are and no matter Where you are or how hopeless things seem for you... Just know this , it will get better ! and even better , you have the power and the talent and the capability to make it better ! You dont have to wait , you dont have to suffer anymore . The unlimited and Awesome power of the universe is at your disposal , and when you learn to use this resource , You become Unlimited and All Powerful ! 

So , go ahead and Create ! 
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Do You Intimidate Men And Put Them Off Before The Chase Even Begins

There are many gorgeous strong successful career women who say they find themselves quite lonely and would love to meet the right man but when they go on dates they rarely are asked for a second, and the relationships they get into do not last because men find them "intimidating".

Its true that SOME men -- especially those who consider such women out of their league-- find gorgeous strong successful career women "threatening" to their manhood but there is more to this than just "insecure" men.

Some gorgeous strong successful career women are wonderful well balanced and emotionally secure human beings who like most have the same difficulties common to all singles but made more difficult by their career and material success. Ive worked with some of these women and as soon as they learn how to ease men into seeing the "strong" them - the "career" them, they find themselves in relationships that are going somewhere - and VERY fast because they already have the "if-you-want-it-go-get-it-yourself" mindset and the skills for getting what they want.

But there are some women who use "men are intimidated by my success" to cover up male-alienating-behaviours that are so deep rooted that they dont even know they have them. First contact with them makes even me (a people-person) step back and wonder if I really want to get to know this person, which in turn makes me wonder if this is the way men they come in contact with feel. Some of them in the beginning come across as really nice fun loving women but soon or later the sarcastic, put-down, bitter, insecure, clingy, controlling, manipulative, selfish and self-interested, negative and desperate person hiding behind "men are intimidated by my success" comes out. And it is this --not the "success" -- that so many men have such a difficult time dealing with, even men who are successful in their own right.

Many women may not want to hear this but there is a HUGE difference between being a truly independent woman who can think for herself and is strong enough to stand on her own, wont take the abuse that an insecure man usually dishes out and is confident enough to allow a man to get close to her and a woman whose behaviour causes any man in his right senses to think twice about entering, pursuing or remaining in the relationship.

When it comes to meeting the right man and having the relationship of your dreams, true independence has little to do with looks, academic degrees, what youve been able to achieve career wise or materially and everything to do with how you truly feel on the inside. On the outside, you may appear to be warm, friendly, vibrant, intelligent and have a great sense of humour but the real you inside (the little girl afraid of rejection or abandonment crying out "Ill make you love me" or the hurt and angry b**** inside screaming "chew em up and spit em out") turns guys off before the chase even begins. Some really great guy might try to come close and try to stick around but after a while he too cant take it anymore.

Often times the very skills that make us very successful in a male-dominated work environment are the ones that dont work for us when it comes to love. Its finding that GREAT balance of masculine and feminine energies that is your key to the relationship of your dreams. And PLEASE for the nth time, femininity is not just about looking/dressing and "acting" feminine - its about embodying the whole essence of mother earth in all her magnificence and ageless beauty.

If you are looking to meet a man who is attracted to and is "turned on" mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by a woman who challenges him on all those levels, the first place to start is within - and this time really BE open and honest with yourself as you work though your own insecurities, pain or skewed sexual programming.

Trust me, there are a lot of men who are so confident in who they are and so secure with themselves and would do ANYTHING (and without any bit of bitterness and resentment) to have "the whole package". I personally know many of these men.

The ones with serious insecurity issues will of course continue to be intimidated by you, but that is theirs to work on. Trying to adjust your life to them would be too much of unnecessary sacrifice - and frankly, ITS NOT WORTH IT!

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Get Your Ex Back – Staying Cool Is The Rule

Get Your Ex Back – Staying Cool Is The Rule

When ?our heartbroken, life be?omes colorless, food loses taste, bright sunshine filled days lo?k ?s gray and a? bleak, a? rainy days. It’s ? rough road to travel ?nd m?st adults h?ve traveled it at least once. Some n?ver make it, there ?r? sorrows too big t? bear for som? people. Don’t l?t th?t happen to you.

Instead ?f getting emotional, wh??h will devastate y?ur chances ?f reconciliation, b? agreeable, t?ll your ?x th?t ?ou th?nk breaking u? m?y be b?st for b?th of you. Remember he/she’s leaving b?caus? he/shes h?d ?t w?th ??ur behavior and he/she is expecting ?ou to blow ? cork and start go?ng nuts. He/she expects it, th?nk th?? thr?ugh and g?t your mind ?round it, your ex expects you t? becom? emotional and make ? bunch of promises ?nd maybe ?v?n throw things around, or worse. You can immediately change th? break-up dynamic by remaining calm ?nd saying that ??u w?re “actually thinking ?long the ??me lines, a break-up w?ll allow u? some space, thi? relationship w?s not reall? working for m? and n?w I see ?t h?snt been working for ??u either”.

Take ?om? time now, ? f?w weeks ?nd give ??ur ex time t? g? ?ut and g?t th?ir head figured out ? l?ttl? bit, t? g?t t? ? place wher? th?? ??n hash out what has b?en g?ing on. Same go?? f?r you, heck y?u might ev?n find th?t a break-up r??lly ?s wh?t you d? need. Some space to th?nk ?nd evaluate where ?ou want t? go w?th ?our life will let ?ou make a m?re rational decision. Now don’t quit reading, hear me out, you ju?t planted the seed ?f doubt in the?r mind as ??on as y?u reacted calmly to their leaving, your ?x i? thinking “wow I thought he/she w?? gonna freak out, maybe..”, you ??e he/she ?? going to lose ??me of that confidence th?t they made the right decision then and there. That uncertainty w?ll work on them ov?r th? next f?w weeks.

During ?our time a??rt analyze what the problems w?r? ?nd ?f ??u need to, get some counseling t? h?l? ?ou figure out what w?nt wrong. Learn h?w t? change th??e things ?bout your behavior that you ??n fix. Don’t all?w y?urself to b??om? isolated, th?s ?s a ver? tough time f?r you and y?u n??d family ?nd friends ?r?und you. If you cut th?m ?ff ??u could end up ?n ? terrible ?nd dangerous depression. In fact as part of ??ur personal therapy make ??urs?lf g? ?e? ?om? one you h?vent ??en for ? while, ?n old high school chum or ?ther person ??u r?all? w?uld l?ke t? touch base with but have been. The exercise is to get ??u out and ke?? ?ou moving if y?u ?re asked t? go out t? parties go, but don’t g?t wasted this i? ? time for reflection. Just sip y?ur drinks ?nd stop after thre? or so. You have t? b? careful n?t to go falling ?f the edge r?ght now.

Now if ??u truly h?d some character flaws, someth?ng ??u kn?w you ?ould work on that w?? maybe the central problem with ?our ex then ?? ?ou ?re making th?s? changes, you can l?t ?t g?t out to the?r side ?f th? family th?t your making progress. You d?nt a?k them to tell him/her, ?ou ju?t let them know your changing y?ur game. The news w?ll get back t? ?our ex sooner or later.

A lot ?f times y?u wont hav? t? wait long bef?re ?our ?x calls you, I me?n ?n l??? th?n ? week, ma?be it w?ll tak? longer, but the? will probably call you, ?f y?u h?ve played it cool ?nd not gone crazy or g?t ?ll emotional. You start crying and begging them to stay, th?y will DESPISE YOU. But ?f y?u stayed cool Then y?ur ?x w?ll eventually call you. When They do, dont g?t all excited ?nd tr? ?nd get togeth?r right away, th?t w?ll not work, th?t will undo that hard work ??u’v? don? being cool when the? left you.

Instead ke?p you conversation short tell th?m your glad the? called but ?ou ?re in th? middle of something and ?ou have to go, ?r bett?r t?ll th?m y?ur going t? b? tied u? for the next f?w days could the? call ?ou back in four ?r fiv? days. Now the? ?re go?ng t? be scratching their head say?ng “whats up? wh?t hav? I done”

The ball ?nd the power g?t back ?n your side, ?ou start appearing to ?our ex t? be more attractive and desirable that way. So play ?t COOL aft?r th?s contact th?y w?ll call y?u again, k??? ?t short but show h?r y?ur interested by talking to h?r for ab?ut fiv? minutes ?nd th?n s?y you gotta go. From now on your busy ?ou can onl? talk ? f?w minutes finally y?ur ex will suggest ?ou g?t tog?ther for coffee ?r lunch etc, ?our ?n y?ur wa? to gett?ng your ex back.

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Best Seller Books On Relationships May Make A Fool Of You

If your ex has just broken up with you, you may be in the marketplace for books on relationships. But how do you choose the best books on relationships among the many offerings out there?

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In this article, I will show you how to choose the best books on relationships. And the answer will surprise you. Read on…

First, don’t be fooled by fancy letters after a author’s name. There are many people who find school to be a convenient escape from real life. Instead of engaging with people, they spend their time in the classroom and library. As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35. They use their degrees to indicate that they have “expert knowledge” of a situation. But does their expertise work in the real world?

Instead, you should look for books on relationships by authors who have been in the trenches. They’ve either put a bad relationship back together themselves or they have helped countless buddies do the same. These aren’t therapy patients that come in for the “fifty minute hour” either. These relationships are those of people the author cares deeply about.

Next, you want to find books that don’t boil down to “put the relationship aside for 30 days and work on yourself during that period.” This is all most “save your relationship” or “get your ex back” reports say. Many of the ebooks on the market turn that concept into 50 page documents. These are just pieces of fluff and don’t deserve your attention – or your money.

Instead, you should look for a book that will give you new information; information that you’re friends can’t give you.

For instance, will the book tell you what women crave the most? Will it give you a step by step guide for how to give it to her? Will the book show you how to recover from an affair? Will it give you specific techniques to get relief from your pain?

Finally, look at who is recommending the book. Do the testimonials seem a little generic? Were they written by the author’s brother and second cousin?

You want to find books on relationships that come recommended by a wide variety of people, in various situations, from all walks of life. If it looks like both a guy from England and a newly engaged woman from Kansas have used the book, chances are it will work for you.

There are many books on relationships on the market. Unfortunately, most of them are drivel because they weren’t written by someone in the trenches. As a result, they have generic advice that could be best summed up in a paragraph or two. Then, what recommendations the book can get are generic in nature, because the book really has nothing going for it.

Finding the best books on relationships can take a little work. But, everything about relationships are work. Shouldn’t you invest the time and money in the very best book out them?

You can check out the posts on REVIEWS in this blog. :-)

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The One Way To Get An Ex Back Before You Even Begin

While there are numerous ways to get your ex back there are a few ways in which continuously work and will not cause any collateral destruction. Use them to win your ex back rapidly and gladly. One great way of getting your ex back is to talk only about his/her positive personality especially in front of common friends and relatives. This could just be what your ex really wants to hear and your family and friends members can oblige you by informing your ex concerning your sincere encouraging approach towards him/her in spite of the breakup.

One m?re good ways t? g?t ?our ?x back ?? to enter deep ?nto th? shell of ?our relationship ?nd find out the primary ??u?e that m?? h?ve led t? th? breakup. A th?r?ugh investigation f?llow?d by apologies from ??ur side f?r any mistakes committed by ??u will als? g? a long w?y in pleasing ?our ?x and opening his/her mind t?ward? ? resolution. Calmly thoughtful ?our ex’s perspective ?an ?l?o b? important ?in?e ?ou m?ght n?t h?ve been ?n a mood t? listen ?n the breakup.



After ??u be aware ?f ?our ex’s perception and ?ndi??t? ?t t? your ex, you m?ght gain lots ?f respect ?ut ?f ?our ex sin?e ?t w?ll show that you have n?w turn ?nt? responsive t? ?our ex’s line ?f view. Whenever ?ou n??d to do meet ??ur ex, remain pleasant and ?l?o tr? t? subtly include a f?w hints fr?m th? past, with n? making ?t ?e?m t?? obvious, f?r instance “Remember wh?n we h?d g?ne to…”

This is cert?in to make ?our ex nostalgic and remind him/her of th? great times th?t ?ou had shared together. Try t? ?l?o stick t? ? new routine that includes work ?nd pleasure. Once your ?x sees you g?t t?geth?r the parts ?f ?our life, he/she ?? ?ure to b? n?t ?ure and tr? to g?t back w?th you.

These ?r? ? number of the ways by wh?ch you ?an get back with ?our ?x without ?ny trauma ?n ??ther side. Apply th?m ?nd watch ?our ex forgive, forget ?nd g?t back ?nto your waiting arms.

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How To Escape The Final Stages Of Breaking Up

As we know very few people suddenly break up. There is usually a series of stages of breaking up that all couples go through. If it comes as a shock, you probably have the reason why you were dumped. You weren’t paying attention to what was happening between you and your partner. Otherwise you would have spotted he/she wasn’t happy, was ignoring you and doing their best not to spend time with you.

We all get caught up in our own thing from time to time and this isn’t usually a problem. But when your partner sees less of you than your friends and other family,it can highlight an issue in your relationship. If you do spend time together but are always fighting, you need to stop and break that cycle. Constant arguing achieves nothing and although initially it is fun making up, it can come to a point where you don’t bother trying.

Does your partner trust you? Do you trust them? Lack of trust is also a symptom of a partnership in trouble. If you always second guess your lover or expect to know where they are all the time, they will soon see that this isn’t love and may move on. If you are behaving like this, you need to stop right now. Unless your spouse has given you reason not to trust them, you should believe in them and have faith that they will do the right thing.

Are you on the same wavelength as your other half? Do they share your happy feelings and commiserate when you are down or feeling low? Couples who instinctively, know how the other is feeling, will overcome most of the hurdles that life can throw at us.

Does your lover share your interests and hobbies? If she has made an effort to get involved, this is a sign that she really cares about you. No-one expects her to join you for your 5am fishing trips but if she seems interested in listening to your stories about what you caught, what size it was, that is a good sign.

Your partner may have asked for a trial separation. Ok, so sometimes this is just an easy way of saying “you are dumped but I can’t say that!” But it doesn’t always have to mean this. Things can go wrong between two people and only time apart will help them to resolve the issues.

So if your lover does suggest this, agree but ask that they come to counselling with you. Show them that you do not want the relationship to end as they mean too much to you. Try not to put pressure on them and do not resort to emotional blackmail. You cannot force someone to love you but you can turn a bad situation into something a lot worse by appearing desperate or manipulative.

True love is based on understanding and respect. Showing your partner that you know this is a great way to avoid the final stages of breaking up.

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The Paradox of Wanting to Be Loved

Written in the first person for a self-responsible experience. Own what fits, throw out the rest. I dont want be too quick to throw out the baby with the bathwater cause then what Ive got is a screaming child and emptiness.

Many of my behaviours set me up to be rejected and unloved by the very people whose acceptance and love I most desire.

If I win, I lose.

This is the inevitable result of the paradox of wanting (actually demanding) to be loved.

This paradox is like the fly on flypaper.

The more I fight it, the more I get stuck.

The more I deny it, the more I cut off my ability to love freely.

As an adult, I pay dearly for my negative identification with my parents -- or other adults whom I feel wronged by.

In effect, I sell my soul in the hopes of being loved.

I answer the question, "Do I have to give up myself in order to be loved?" with a resounding "YES!" -- with the added demand -- "and you BETTER love me back because i have given up my soul for you!!"

In my relationships, I -- without knowing it -- try to recapture Mommys or Daddys, what passed for, "love."

This so-called "love" was probably 80% control and 20% an incompetent attempt to be loving.

I learn that this so-called "love" is what I must do so that:

(a) I believe I am lovable;
(b) You will love me; and
(c) I can show you that love you.

Problem is, it aint love, it just looks that way.

So, I choose partners who manifest the "loving" traits of Mommy or Daddy.

By doing that I choose the path of experiencing feeling unloved.

Feeling a little crazy right now?

Yup! Exactly.

Projecting my parents unconsciously and automatically onto our lovers, authority-figures, clients, bosses, friends, colleagues, or teachers is "ghosting."

By "Ghosting" I recreate my early so-called "loving" (actually, controlling, incompetent loving) family system.

With "ghosting" I create "The Bank Account Relationship."

Ill deposit some love in your bank. I expect it back -- with interest -- when I demand a withdrawal from you.

It goes like this:

"I am being loving.";

"Therefore I am lovable!";

"Because I am lovable, you the must love me back!";

"Then I will be able to love you."

By "ghosting" the horror of the so-called "love" (which is actually 80% control and 20% an incompetent) my relationships go off the rails.

My desired, expected destination was "love." My actual destination is loneliness & isolation. The experience is resistance, conflict, and rejecting or being rejected, heartbreak, and loss.

As an adult I, when I feel unlovable, believe you dont love me, so I wont love you back. In response, I act like frightened 5-year-old who would do almost anything to avoid pain, all-the-while- resisting help. All-the-while denying whats really going on.

Think of the screaming kid in the grocery store having a full-on tantrum as mom or dad helplessly try to reason, or punish the kid into submission.

As an adult I do not really have to withdraw, punish or pretend that the pain of feeling unlovable and unloved does not exist, but when Im drowning in bad feelings resurrected over the so-called "love" thing I feel like Im drowning.

And like the flailing, drowning swimmer who is being rescued, s/he -- in her/his panic -- takes the rescuer down with her or him.

Fact is, a child can drown in a foot of water.

But as an adult if I can get a grip on my self and look at the "reality" of the situation, the water is only up to my ankles. Im right on shore (self-awareness).

Then I can deal with the difficulties of love and relationships (that requires a great deal of courage to activate my self-awareness into behavioural self-management).

Because I am only ankle deep, not drowning, I no longer have to spend my life avoiding the sources of the problems in my life, afraid that facing my pain will hurt too much and hoping that it will somehow just disappear because you love me.

Our families, by modeling that they were incapable of dealing with love, suffering, and other human experiences -- misled me about what is love.

Due to their own childhood programming, my family did not know how to nourish me so I could grow my unique self.

That is no reason for me to do the same to my self and those whom I am attempting to be with.

I can learn to deal with these things -- the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful that life serves up -- should I choose to "grow up" to take the assignment.

I can extract my self from my flypaper attachment to the paradox of wanting to be loved -- with a little help from my friends.

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The Magic Of Making Up Get Your Ex Back

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DEBT AND LAW OF ATTRACTION !

First off all , lets not argue about "but from where the money will come ?" , its none of your business ! , its the universes business , so you just sit pretty while the universe finds a way to come up with the Money .For my more skeptical friends , Please relax and let the universe show you , "How the money is going to come. "

Now that being said , we can move on to the topic at hand , that is DEBT ! 

Being is Debt is bad , being constantly chased by creditors is annoying and at the same time takes toll over our self esteem and image.  

Many of us have at some point in our life have found ourselves in debt , we owe money , and we dont have enough to pay back . And believe me , i know , this feeling sucks , especially if you are not an habitual defaulter.

Many people ask me about law of attraction and Money , can LOA be used to manifest money , can it help them to clear off their debts ?

The Answer is Yes ! it can ! But , like any application of LOA , it can be really easy or really difficult to implement , depends on your current mindset. 

Now look at "Settlement of Debt" as a need , so when applying LOA on this matter , we calculate the amount of money we need to settle the debt and ask the universe to deliver through visualization , imagination , listing out things to be thankful for and stuff , if these work for you , then just close this page , because you are An LOA Master and you dont need to be here , go enjoy your money , but if these dont work , read on.

The universe manifests the essence of your desires by picking up on your emotions and feelings. So sometimes concentrating on an "BIG Amount of money to pay off your debt , when there is no obvious source of income in sight , can be a little difficult , it can also , evoke Negative emotions of doubt and uncertainty. 

SO whats the alternative ?

Its. simple , we take the money factor out of the manifestation. Just listen to me for a second ,before lighting the torches and picking up your pitchforks .  Its simple , 

"The manifestation we are aiming for is Debt settlement not manifesting Money ! "

Let me explain with an example ....

Meet Steve , Steve has lost his job due to something inevitable. And now with no monthly income to support him , Steve is facing a Huge Credit card Outstanding , lets say USD 30000 ! Maybe he bought a Train for all i care , but the truth is he is in debt , and he has no way of paying it off in the future . Now he can declare bankruptcy and get the credit card people off his back , but lets be honest , declaring Bankruptcy isnt cheap . that will be the last nail in the coffin. 

What Steve needs to do is to address the elephant in the room , or better , imagine the room without the elephant ! 

The need here is to settle the debt , and the only logical solution Steves brain is giving him is "Get some Money" But with the bad market and all (again a belief of Steves Brain) it seems impossible at the moment. So what does he do ? He leaves it to the universe. 

What Steves Brain doesnt understand is that the HOW of this manifestation will be taken care off by the universe , who has access to all the 3600 Thousand Trillion Dollars on the earth , And Steves Debt is a measly 0.0000000000000001 % of that wealth. So all Steve has to do now is concentrate on the feeling he is going to feel while he is repaying the Debt. 

So, Steve sits Down , and He relaxes , He Takes deep breaths and he remembers the fact that he is the creator of his own experience in this reality  . And he Asks himself ....

              "How will i feel , when this debt is paid ? " 

What does this debt settlement stand for , the answer is simple , RELAXATION  ! Steve will be able to finally relax once the debt is paid . and through that Relaxation will come Happiness. 

Knowing this Steve now , imagines that he is paying his debt off, he is writing a cheque , and he is handing it over to the people he owes money , or he is Transferring funds from his account and paying off all his debt , and while doing so , a feeling of relaxation is sweeping over him. Now he is no longer under debt , and great burden is off his shoulders and he is feeling free and light and  mildly elated. He keeps feeling these feelings , looses track of time , drifts off to sleep.
 

Next Morning he wakes up , freshens up , sits down with a pen and paper , Writes down ....

"Thank you universe for such an amazing resolution , i feel so free and light , now that i have cleared off all my debts . And the best part , there is money left with me after , to help me start over again. Thank you universe for taking care of me ! " 

He spends the day without a care in the world and in the evening , receives a text that his account has been debited with 60000 USD . 

So folks what did we learn ?

1. Its the feelings that matter. SO find a way to feel "That way". 

2. You manifestation aint in the future , its now , when asking for a desire , act as if you have it "NOW"

3. The universe is Generous , it will give you more than you could have ever imagined or expected. 

4. Its possible for you to feel "That way" without an actual manifestation. 

5. Goal setting is good , but Dont be stuck on a date , Maybe the universe wants to deliver it ahead of time. 

6. When ever you are imagining or visualizing , Do it in the Present tense , do it as if you have everything now. Your imagination is your happy place , you are not bound by physical limitations , so go Nuts ! 

 
pS. This Example was based of a real experience of one of the readers. :)

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How to Look After Turtles

Hey, I am Torty the tormented turtle and I stay as a pet in your terrapinarium. I am from a very respectable and well known family which can proudly declare to be the oldest surviving creatures of this planet! My ancestors inhabited this earth about 215 million years back, much before your forefathers; I mean the first human being appeared on it. Believe it or not, the enormous, fierce, and elegant dinosaurs were their next door neighbors!

But here, right now, I am sorry to pronounce that I am not happy at all. Everyday you watch me to have a great fun while I swim and glide back and forth inside the tank, but do you really have any concern for me? Do you love me? No, I suppose! Today let me tell you frankly that you do not take proper care of me at all. Day in and day out I suffer from various ailments just due to lack of your attention.

Unfortunately I can not express my pain and agony because God has not given me a vocal cord. I can not even scream for any help and suffer mutely from terrible pains. My tear blends silently with the awfully dirty water of the tank which you hardly cleaned or filtered.

But are you bothered for that? No, not at all! I am hurt and helpless and in real trouble, just because of your negligence! Well, it is said, to err is human and being a human you are also likely to commit error. Let me forgive this time and give a fair chance you.

I sincerely hope you will follow the guidelines given below and change your attitude henceforth:

Keep my surroundings and the tank water clean.
Provide balanced diet to keep me out of deficiency diseases.
While handling, hold me gently but firmly but please dont drop me on the floor.
I need a heater, a UV light, and a basking platform fitted in the tank as I am a cold blooded animal and cannot tolerate winter chill. Else I may hibernate!
While I hibernate, keep watching me to observe any unusual change.

Always consult a veterinary doctor in case you see the following symptoms:

Red and swollen eyes, breathing trouble, difficulty in swimming, loss of appetite, nasal secretions, bleeding wounds, soft and leathery carapace, or cracks on the shell.

For Gods sake try to be a loving and caring pet owner!

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Christian Article Provides Essential Life Lessons

Christian blogs provide essential help for life. Pertinent insight into your lifes situations can be gathered through the assistance of a mature Christian blog or Christian article. Enjoy insight into Jesus teachings and the Bible today by reading wonderfully written, interesting content.

Christian blogs provides practical insight for everyday living. Enjoy easy reading that probes deeply into your heart and life while activating your greatest potential. Many Christians are struggling with daily life and find that they are bogged down with concerns and the Word of God often seems distant and intangible. A helping hand in understanding the concepts shared in the Word of God can assist a believer in achieving the Christian walk with God that they so desire. A church blog provides insight into the teachings of Jesus and both New Testament and Old Testament truths that provide a strong foundation for everyday life. Achieving a life of righteousness, joy and peace as described in John 14: 17 is possible and the power of the Internet provides connections between believers that bring strength and renewed faith.

Touch the heart of Jesus through a church blog. Enjoy the free flowing insight into the Word of God shared by mature leadership that care for the sheep in the body of Christ. Jesus asked Peter directly, "Do you love me?" Peter replied instantly, "Yes, Lord!" Then Jesus proceeded to tell Peter to feed his sheep. The Internet provides an open door of communication between church leadership and believers who Jesus calls sheep. It is Jesus desire that Christians are provided with truths pertaining to the Word of God that can be easily incorporated into their daily life. Jesus feels the infirmities of his people and He desires for his sheep to hear his voice. Jesus said, my people (sheep) recognize my voice and another voice they will not follow." (John 10:4-5)

Obey My voice, and I will be your God, and you shall be My people. And walk in all the ways that I have commanded you, that it may be well with you. "Yet they did not obey or incline their ear, but followed the counsels and the dictates of their evil hearts, and went backward and not forward. (Jeremiah 7:23-24 NKJV) Turn today to the assistance of a Christian blog site and receive the insight available through a posted Christian article. Receive insight on Godly righteousness versus our own "goodness" in the Christian article: Better to be Real than Right. Gentle Restoration is a Christian article on how to restore someone back into position in the body of Christ after a fall into sin or backsliding. Mercy Triumphs assist believers in recognizing the mercy of God versus the sternness of God; enjoy truths that will provide freedom from a false concept of the severity of God and a blocked vision of the love and mercy of God.

A Christian blog provides essential truths that assist believers in walking a smooth walk with Christ. Jesus invites people to become one with him and this is done as we understand and accept the truths pertaining to His word, the Bible. Dig deep into the truths of Gods mercy and love while enjoying the easy reading which is designed to provide believers everywhere with the love of Christ. Just as Jesus told Peter to feed His sheep, compassionate leaders are being led by Jesus to create Christian blogs that provide essential life lessons for believers.

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The Blessing of the Tithe

In morning worship I heard myself say, I stand on the blessing of a tither. For many years my family has been taught what the word of God says about the tithe. The first thing that one must know about the tithe is obedience to it. The tithe activates the blessing from the Lord that is to large to receive, as stated in Malachi 3:10-12.

Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

11 And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD of hosts.

12 And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the LORD of hosts.

We are also told in this portion of scripture the reason for bringing the tithe. God said that He wants the tenth part so that He can have meat in his storehouse to bless. So the reason that we tithe is not to receive a blessing but to be a blessing. When we become a blessing through obedience to the tithe, God opens the windows of heaven and pours out a blessing that is to large to receive it all. It does not stop there. We are also told that God will rebuke the one that destroys seed that is planted so our crops will come to full harvest. This includes the protection of our children, the fruit of our body. It does not stop there. We are also told that all nations shall call us blessed because we are a delightful land. God told Abraham in Genesis 22:18 that in his seed which is Christ, all nations of the earth shall be blessed because of his obedience.

How to receive this blessing is what I want to focus on. There are many people in the body of Christ that have been tithing for years and have not come to this over taking blessing. We know Gods word is true so there must be a reason that the blessing is not manifest.

It became plain to see once the Holy Spirit opened my eyes as to why this over taking blessing had not manifested in my familys life. The Holy Spirit asked me the questions, Do you want to stand on the blessing of your tithe or on the blessing of Abrahams tithe? Do you want to stand on the blessing of your obedience or on the obedience of your Father Abraham?

The word states that we are blessed with faithful Abraham. Galatians 3:9 So then they which be of faith are blessed with faithful Abraham.

(God asked me to give a tenth. He asked Abraham to give his only son.) The word says that in Abrahams seed which is Christ shall all families of the earth be blessed. Whose sacrifice do you want to stand on? Whose tithe and offering do you want to stand on, the tithe and offering of Abraham and the offering of is seed, Christ or do you wish to stand on your own righteous works of the tithes and offerings. The Holy Spirit took me further in to the tithe. He brought to remembrance the scripture where Levi while yet in the loins of his father Abraham, paid tithes.

Hebrews 7:9 And as I may so say, Levi also, who receiveth tithes, payed tithes in Abraham.

10 For he was yet in the loins of his father, when Melchisedec met him.

Then He said this to me which turned on the light and I saw the error of my way. He said to me, while you were yet in the loins of Abraham you also paid tithes and while you were yet in the loins of Christ, your every debt was paid. You do not own Me anything except the honor due my Name and to love one another. This is why you are blessed with Faithful Abraham because in My heart you were there. You stand by faith in this grace. You have a right to Abrahams blessing because you were there when he tithed to Melcheishdech. You have full right to the blessing of Christ because you were there in his suffering and you were their at his resurrection and you are now seated with him at the source of all blessing, the throne of God.

Therefore Honour the LORD with thy substance, and with the firstfruits of all thine increase:

10 So shall thy barns be filled with plenty, and thy presses shall burst out with new wine.

11 My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction:

12 For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.

Proverbs 8:21 That I may cause those that love me to inherit substance; and I will fill their treasures.

Psalms 96:8 Give unto the LORD the glory due unto his name: bring an offering, and come into his courts.

The Holy Spirit went on to say, Because I love you I correct you that I may fill your house with wealth that is to large to receive it and because you love Me you honor me with your tithes and offerings. As I have instructed you before, the book of Malachi is not a book about the tithe it s a book about honor.

Abraham truly walked in a blessing to large to receive. Christ now walks in a blessing to large to receive and if you be Christ you are Abrahams seed and heirs according to the promise. We are joint heirs with Christ. We have his blessing. The obedience to the tithe activates it in our lives as long as we do not put faith in our obedience but in the obedience of Abraham and His seed, Jesus Christ.

Now I see more clearly what it means to stand on the blessing of a tither. I stand on the blessing of Abrahams tithes because I was there when he met Melcheishdech. God saw me there. I was there when Christ came before Father God and sprinkled his own blood on the mercy seat and paid my eternal debt forever.

Lastly the Holy Spirit said this in my heart, By all means never stop tithing and giving, but if you chose to stop would you be afraid that I would not continue to bless you? Then he said, I cause rain to fall on the just and unjust, I am merciful to all. The foul of the air neither sow or reap and I bless them, are you not much better that they. Consider the lilies of the field, they do not toil or spin and they are clothed with more glory than Solomon, how much more shall I clothe you weather you tithe or dont tithe, weather you sow or reap because you are my son. Oh, you of little faith. Without faith it is impossible to please me, for those who come to me must believe that I am and that I am a rewarder of those who diligently seek ME.

Being obedient to tithes and offerings simply activates the Blessing of Abraham in our lives as long as we do not place our faith in the tithe and offerings but in God who gives us richly all things to enjoy. God had it all worked out while we were yet in the loins of Abraham and while we were yet in the loins of Christ, his Seed, through whom all families of the earth are blessed. It is impossible to receive the Blessing in any other way. It is by faith that we have access into this abundant grace in which we stand.

Fred Fishburne has been serving the Lord since 1980. He was called by God in 1983 to New Life Bible College in Atlanta, Georgia, Founded by Norvel Hayes. After graduation, he helped charter a Rhema Bible Church, Living Word On The Move, in which Fred and his wife Ann raised their family and still serve today. Fred has been a Christian author for several years, encouraging people with his uplifting style to reach out and receive by faith the inheritance that God has prepared for them in Christ Jesus.

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Tips To Get Exgirlfriend Back

Regardless of whether your girlfriend broke up with you or if the decision to end your relationship was mutual, you may be feeling that the break-up was a mistake. It isn’t unusual to regret breaking up with your girlfriend; nor is it unusual to want to get exgirlfriend back. These feelings of wanting to rekindle a past relationship can occur shortly after a break-up or they may spring up several weeks or months afterwards.

If you want to get your ex back, you are going to want to try some of the following tips. Because every break-up and every relationship is different, some of these may not apply to your situation; however, be sure to look all of the tips over thoroughly. If you do not approach the idea of reuniting with your ex cautiously and with care, you may blow your chances of getting her back.

Try these tips as you work toward getting your exgirlfriend back:

• Admit your fault in the break-up, as well as anything you did wrong during the relationship. Although even the most heartfelt apology is unlikely to get your ex to run back into your arms, it is a good first step.

• Be kind whenever you see her. Speak nicely, even though you may be hurting and angry—you need to rise above those feelings and understand her needs at the moment. This will show her that you still care about her.

• Be an excellent listener whenever she talks to you. Let her express herself and do not interrupt. Unless she asks for your opinion, do not tell her what she should do or how she should act.

• Think about what you did during the relationship that may have helped to lead up to the break-up. Work on changing these habits. For example, if you determine that your ex was likely troubled by your lack of career goals, perhaps you can visit a career counselor and find a job path in which you are interested. Your ex will see that you are working on changing the habits she disliked--and this will make you attractive to her.

Just as there are suggestions of what you should try, there are also some things you should definitely not do as you try to get exgirlfriend back. Avoid doing any of these:

• Do not appear needy or emotionally desperate when you see or speak with your ex. This is not attractive at all.

• Do not follow the cues you see in the movies--sending flowers and serenading her at her workplace are sure to annoy her, not attract her.

• Do not go out with other women if you want to get your ex back. This sends the message that you do not miss your ex and that you are over the past relationship. And even if you are careful, your ex will find out that you have seen other women.

By following these tips, you should be able to work towards getting your exgirlfriend back. Good luck!

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6 Ways the Law Of Attraction Can Improve Your Life Part 1

The law is simply this: We attract whatever we think about, good or bad.

Whether of not you believe in it , it had been working for you from behind the scenes all your life, and it will continue to do so, for the rest of your life. 

Here i am going to do a 2 part list of things that you should know about The Law of attraction so that you can improve your life. 

1. You Attract Good Or Bad Experiences based on your thoughts. 

"The one who speaks most about illness has illness. The one who speaks about prosperity has prosperity,". "You attract all of it." By focusing on something, you make it happen.

When you thinking about anything and feeling good or bad about it , you are in that moment communicating with the universe, which responds to that communication by creating experiences in your future, that would further amplify the previously communicated feelings. 

So feeling bad about stuff creates Bad stuff , and feeling good about stuff creates good Stuff. 

So life and all its experiences are created from within you, and so, you are in control, you at any moment can decide to create good things for yourself only. 

2. Thinking about something means that you are inviting it in, even if you dont want it

"When you think a little thought of something that you want, through the Law of Attraction, that thought grows larger and larger, and more and more powerful," according to the book. So keep your thoughts positive.

The universe doesnt hear the word NO , It only hears what you are thinking about and how you are feeling about it. And based on this information it gives you  All ! Everything that you think about comes to you, and depending on the emotion that you had associated with it.. it is either GOOD for you or BAD.

3. The more you focus on something, the more powerful it becomes

This allows you to create your own reality by "attracting" the experiences you want to have. The more you focus on something, and pay attention to it, the more it comes into your experience. And this is true for both the good and the bad. 

 

 

So , if you pay attention to all that is good in your life, or even if you just appreciate all that is right in your life, and feel good about them, They will just grow, and provide you with more happiness in the coming days, Because when you do pay attention and feel good about all that is good, the universe just hears :   "I like this,this makes me happy, i want more of this". The universe will work on making more positive for you.

Similarly, if you pay attention and get irritated by every small thing, you are telling the universe : "This makes me feel bad, i want more of this". And the universe obliges, makes the situation worse. And you see that things that were just minor annoyances at first are now big problems. 

4. Its better to trust your emotions, rather than over think a decision. 

 
 
Instead of over-thinking your choices, let your emotions guide you toward what is right and what is wrong. Forget about the rules of the society and the rules in general, if something makes you happy, that is the universes way of telling you that you are on the right track, and if something doesnt feel right, ie; if something feels bad then its the universe telling you that it not the right choice for you. Your emotions work as a GPS, to guide you towards your happiness, and to warn you when you are going towards your sadness. so pay attentions to you feelings more than your thoughts.  This will result in a more satisfying life.

5. You can make good things happen more quickly by thinking about them more 

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Minggu, 01 Mei 2016

The Cleft of the Rock Brings Forth the Glory

Sitting on a rock at the little pebble beach near my home, I was enjoying the family of ducks sunning themselves about thirty feet from me. A gaggle of geese honked overhead as they practiced for their impending long flight south.

The Lord has had me captive at His feet for close to a year, sharing so much more about Himself than I ever knew in the thirty years that I have walked with Him. During this time of listening and learning, I had dropped all my busy-ness of doing and sharing about Him.

Reclining against the sheer vertical rock face, I felt something soft at my back. Surprised, I turned around to see a lovely plant with bright yellow flowers protruding out of a narrow deep crevice. The Lord demonstrated to me how something so beautiful could come forth out of a deep, dark, barren place.

God covered Moses in the cleft of a rock as His Glory passed by. (Ex. 33: 22) Likewise, it is in the secret place in Christ, the Rock, where the Father reveals Himself. The secrets of the Father are hidden in Jesus Christ. The Father draws you to Jesus as your Lord and Savior. But Jesus reveals the Fathers heart.

The Father is not only revealed in the Son of Man in all that He did and said, but He is also a unique Person who longs to reveal Himself to you. It is good to know that the Father loves you with an everlasting love. But, how would you feel if you had a daddy who wrote you a letter every day telling you how much you mean to him, but you never got to hear or see him?

You were expressly created to have a relationship with the Father. If youre like me, then you may come to a point of crying out: "Yes, I know you love me, but I just cant hear you!" Well, finally I decided to drop everything I was so busy doing and take Him seriously at His Word.

Are you hungry to see His Glory, hear Him speak, feel Him lifting you onto His lap, and call Him Daddy? Then, come and creep in the cleft of the Rock that was hewn for you. It is a place of peace and safety. It may seem dark for a while, but know that its the Hand of the Almighty that is covering you. Share your life with Him with adoration and thanksgiving; not with petitions. There is a time for prayer, and He knows what you need. However, getting to know Him intimately flows out of quiet, worshipful adoration.

The Father loves you as much as He loves Jesus, and that goes for each one of us! Awesome truth; marvellous Love! "Herein is love; not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins." (1 John 4: 10)

To Moses, nothing was more important than to see Gods glory. God saw his hunger and rewarded him for it. It may take a while to be hidden in the crevice, but you will emerge basked in His glory, and the world will see that you have been with God!

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Top 20 Temptations Hits

Americas all-time favorite soul group got their start in 1960. In 1961, they recorded for the Miracle label under the name of The Elgins and The Primes.

The original lineup featured Eddie Kendricks, Paul Williams, Melvin Franklin, Otis Williams (no relation to member Paul) and Eldridge Bryant.

In 1961, Berry Gordy signed the group to Motown, but since there was already an active group known as The Elgins, they changed their name to The Temptations.

When David Ruffin, cousin of Billy Stewart, replaced Bryant in 1964, thats when the hits started coming. Although Ruffin sang lead on many of their hits, the other members shared leads on some of their other songs.

Ruffin, who was causing friction among the other group members and Motown chief, Berry Gordy, was fired from the group in 1968. Kendricks left the group in 1970 after internal problems resulted in arguments over leadership of the group. Both singers returned for the 1982 "Reunion" album.

On the charts, The Temptations scored 37 times on the Billboard Top 40 weekly charts between 1964 and 1975. Four times they went to number one and many of their songs have been covered by other artists.

Kendricks and Ruffin both had successful solo careers with Ruffin having three Top 20 Billboard hits and Kendricks having four, with "Keep On Truckin" going to number one.

Here are The Temptations 20 biggest hits, according to the Billboard weekly Top 40 charts.

1. I Cant Get Next To You - 1969

2. Just My Imagination (Running Away With Me) - 1971 - Eddie Kendricks last single as lead singer with the group.

3. Papa Was A Rolling Stone - 1972 - The Temptations last number one song and a nearly 12 minute album version was reduced to a seven minute single version.

4. My Girl - 1965 - Their first number one single and written and produced by Smokey Robinson.

5. Im Gonna Make You Love Me - 1969 - The Temptations teamed up with the Supremes on this single which was a Top 30 hit for Madeline Bell in 1968.

6. Ball Of Confusion (Thats What The World Is Today) - 1970

7. Beauty Is Only Skin Deep - 1966

8. I Wish It Would Rain - 1968 - Gladys Knight and the Pips recorded this in 1967, but didnt do as well as the Temptations, who took it to #4.

9. Cloud Nine - 1969

10. Runaway Child, Running Wild - 1969

11. Youre My Everything - 1967

12. Masterpiece - 1973

13. Psychedelic Shack - 1970 - This song introduced the world to "psychedelic soul." It was also a featured song, with the group singing it, in an opening sequence of the television comedy "Moonlighting."

14. (I Know) Im Losing You - 1966 - Rare Earth went Top 10 with this song in 1970 and Rod Stewart and Faces also covered it in 1971.

15. All I Need - 1967

16. The Way You Do The Things You Do - 1964 - Their first hit single and covered by Rita Coolidge in 1978, Hall and Oates along with David Ruffin and Eddie Kendricks in a medley in 1985 and UB40, going Top 10 with it in 1990.

17. Aint Too Proud To Beg - 1966 - The Rolling Stones took this song into the Top 20 in 1974.

18. I Could Never Love Another (After Loving You) - 1968

19. My Baby - 1966 - Another song written and produced by Smokey Robinson.

20. (Loneliness Made Me Realize) Its You That I Need - 1967

The Temptations were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1989. A four hour television miniseries, "The Temptations", based on an autobiography by band member Otis Williams, was broadcast in 1998.

Although only one original member is still with the group, The Temptations continue to tour and bring their great sound to many fans.

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