Understanding Women Answering Five Common Questions Men Ask

Have you noticed that as soon as you think youve got her figured out she does something that puts you right back to square one?

No matter how hard men try or what clever strategies men use, at the end of the day the fairer sex remains an elusive mystery.

Although impossible to truly understand a woman, the rewards of being able to navigate her world are certainly worth the effort.

Based on interviews, here are 5 common questions men asked followed by brief explanations of whats going on in her world in each case.

1) "What is she thinking?" - You ask this question when she does something that doesnt make sense to you.

Example: Shes due at a wedding party in four hours and needs shoes to match her dress. Yesterday, she commented on a pair she saw in the shoe store just around the corner saying they would be perfect for the party. Rather than go there for the shoes, she insists on driving to the busy mall that is forty minutes away.

You need to know that you cant judge her logic by yours. If shes doing something that doesnt make sense to you, be open to the strong probability that she has different goals in mind.

2) "Why does she want so much attention?" - You ask this question when she occurs as being needy.

Example: She gets upset and says, "You never tell me you love me." and you dont know what shes talking about because you just told her you loved her a couple of days ago.

You need to know that for women attention is a measure they use to judge their own worth and attractiveness. This is ongoing for women and will be satisfied until the next time she wants your attention. Its not really personal to her, its how shes hard wired.

3) "Why is she always changing her mind?" - You ask this question when you are in the middle of doing something for her and she decides she wants something else.

Example: She told you she wanted French Cuisine on your Saturday evening dinner date and right after you made the reservations she told you shed rather have Thai.

You need to know that a woman has a much more complicated relationship to her desires than you do. When it comes to what she wants her priorities can change very quickly. It helps to maintain a measure of flexibility whenever you can because if you get upset every time she changes her mind shell begin to pull back and wont trust you.

4) "Why does she get so jealous when I look at other women?" - You ask this question when you feel like shes controlling, censoring or watching you like a hawk.

Example: You and her are sitting outside the ice-cream parlor and a beautiful woman walks by. You watch her from the front approaching and from behind after she passes you. Your girlfriend/wife calls you a pig and wants to know why you are looking at younger women.

She doesnt realize that most of the time this is an automatic response for you, something you dont consciously choose to do and you dont have as much control as she thinks.

You need to know that its just as natural for a woman to doubt her own attractiveness and when she sees you looking at another woman this doubt is automatically triggered. It really has nothing to do with you OR the other woman. Rather than be defensive you can diffuse her emotions by reassuring and reminding her that its her that youve chosen - its her that youre with.

5) "Why is she so dramatic?" - You ask this question just as you thought everything was going smoothly when all hell seems to break loose over there with her.

Example: Youre girlfriend/wife has a very animated conversation with her girlfriend about her most recent break-up. She spends several hours on the telephone talking about the same thing all the while getting more upset. Her emotional response seems out of proportion to the circumstance.

You need to know that women often use their reactions to create motion for themselves. Women love movement - it adds variety and entertainment to their lives. Rather she does this sort of thing with her girlfriend than pick a fight with you because she is bored.

Jason and my purpose in business is to share with men and women principles of natural relating that will not only transform your relationship, but will saturate it with purpose, power and passion. It all starts by appreciating him and cherishing her.

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COMMON LOA MISTAKE STARTING WITH THE BIGGEST DREAM

When you first learn about the Law of Attraction, it may be tempting to immediately try to manifest your biggest dreams, like earning million dollars, finding a great relationship or retiring at a young age.  However, our biggest dreams are usually the ones we are furthest away from vibrationally. That’s why big dreams are so big- they feel almost unbelievable! 

Trying to achieve an “almost unbelievable” dream is very challenging.  This is not because it’s impossible or hard for the universe to deliver it, but rather because you don’t believe that it can happen!  If you don’t believe it can happen, it isn’t going to happen.  You must first find a way to believe that you can have what you are dreaming about , and because you are trying to achieve this with the help of the Law Of Attraction, you might as well start by establishing your trust in the law and the capabilities of the universe, at the very least, come to terms with the fact that something like the universe does exist. 

It’s much easier to start out by trying to manifest little things because you won’t be so hung up on the outcome.  After seeing the universe deliver little things, you will start to gain confidence in its ability to deliver big things. With practice, the big dreams will start to seem possible.

So below I’ve listed two easy techniques that you can try now to start seeing evidence of the Law of Attraction in your life:

1.  Test the Law of Attraction with words: 

Find a dictionary and look for a word that you’ve never seen before.   

Next, look over the definition and review it until it makes sense to you.  Then, come up with three original sentences that contain your newly learned word and write them down.  

Repeat this process for two more new words.  When you are done, you should have learned a total of three new words and written down three original sentences for each of them (or a grand total of nine sentences).

Next, leave the exercise and go back to doing whatever you need to do.

Wait for your new words to be attracted back to you.  You might hear them used on the radio, see them written in a book, or hear them in a conversation.  

2. Test the Law of Attraction with drawings:

Brainstorm three random items in your mind.  For example, you could brainstorm a zebra, a violin and a thunderstorm.

For each of your items, spend a few minutes drawing a picture to represent that item.  So in my example, I would draw a zebra, a violin and a thunderstorm.  

Draw each picture separately, giving at least two to three minutes of your attention. When you are done, leave the exercise and get back to your day.

Wait for these items to find their way back to you with the Law of Attraction.  You might see a picture of a zebra, find yourself listening to music played by a violin or a thunderstorm might come rolling in.

The beauty of these strategies is that because you are trying to attract random items you will not be very attached to the outcome of the test.  The less attachment you have to your desires the easier they come to you.

You might be surprised just how quickly these things find their way back to you.  Finding fast evidence of the Law of Attraction is a great way to build up belief in the process, which will help you use it consistently!

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