One of the most common questions that I encounter is, "Can I use law of attraction to bring back an Ex?"
And the Answer to this is Yes! You can! And it’s Easy and difficult at the same time. But in the end it will depend on you. It doesnt matter if the relationship ended yesterday or last month or last year , it doesnt matter if you are here and they are a 1000 miles away . None of it matters, all that matters is, if you still love them?
Most of you will say, "Yes we do!" Thats why we are here, reading your blog! We have tried for so long now, We have tried every move in the proverbial Book ! And now we are frustrated, and we have turned to the universe for help. Well, you have come to the right place, but before we start, I want to just make sure that you are pursuing whoever it is you are pursuing because of love, and not to prove a point, not because you think that you can’t get anyone else , not out of fear, not to feed your ego ,but because you are in love .
Now how will you know if you are still in love, there are a million ways to know, but asking yourself and talking to yourself works best.
PROCESS TO DETERMINE IF YOU STILL LOVE THEM !
1. Find a quiet place where no one can disturb you for at least 15 minutes .
2. Now sit down in a comfortable position, and close your eyes.
3. Take a few deep breaths.
4. Now just for a moment, concentrate on yourself, be entirely present in the moment, pay attention to your body, how it feels, just pull out all your awareness from the past, future, and be there in your body, be with yourself .
5. Know this that in this moment, sitting right here right now, you are free from everything. There is nothing that you need to do, there is nowhere that you need to be and there is nothing that can hurt you. For this 15 minutes you are here and you are free from all the worldly affairs of your life. These 15 minutes are yours to relax! So Relax!
6. Now when you feel like, search your awareness and find the most amazing person aside from your Ex that you know. This person can be anyone; someone you once had a crush on, someone who is way better than your Ex in looks, and nature and all other aspects.
7. Once you have zeroed in on that better person, Ponder on this question.
"Would i still want my Ex if this amazing person walked up to me and proposed me? "
8. For a Moment consider this ,believe it is true, if this amazing person that you know of , or someone like that comes up to you tomorrow and proposes you, would you go for them or would you still want to patch things with your ex.
Take a moment to process this thought in detail.
If you happily accepted this new and amazing person, then I must tell you that, you are not in love with your Ex . What you are actually looking for is a happy and loving relationship , and that can come from anyone , it doesnt have to be your Ex.
Now if the thought of accepting this new and improved person gave you mixed feelings, like cheating on your Ex, even though you are not in a relationship as of now, or if the thought of losing your Ex (despite all the kinks) popped up , and it didnt feel good. Then yes, you are still in love with your Ex , and you should read on .
